You are a living love spell: magnetic, tender, intoxicating.
You feel everything in high-definition, and your heart is a cathedral where devotion echoes.
You’re drawn to deep intimacy - soft mornings, late-night confessions, music that makes your chest ache. You make ordinary moments feel holy. People feel seen in your gaze… and they’re not wrong. Your attention is an anointing.
But sometimes, your devotion becomes a disappearing act.
You merge too fast.
You text the red flags back.
You outsource your worth to the thrill of being chosen.
And when someone pulls away, even the slightest wobble, you stop choosing yourself to chase reassurance.
This isn’t neediness. This is sacred longing without a compass.
The Medicine you need is self Return.
You need to hold your own hand first, before extending it to someone else. You need to practice the kind of love that doesn’t vanish when the other person does. You have to learn to let longing guide you inward, not outward.
Sacred return doesn't require a mountaintop.
It starts in the smallest, most ordinary places—like the moment before you hit send.
In the pause between longing and reaching.
In your text thread, where intimacy actually lives now.
But why the text thread?
We start here because texting is where so much of our intimacy actually happens. And it’s where we can lose ourselves the fastest.
We text the people we care about most - friends, lovers, crushes, siblings, clients… even Granny is getting bold in the family group chat. Our digital conversations hold emotional weight, and whether we realize it or not, they shape how we show up everywhere else.
Not sure how to get started?
I created a free downloadable guide just for you. Text Yourself Back is your grimoire for digital devotion - a collection of scripts that feel like spells, boundaries that feel like sovereignty, and herbal allies that steady your nervous system while you learn to be both soft and unmovable.
Inside this guide, you'll find our apothecary's most potent ally for Lovers: Sanctum, a blend of heart-healing herbs that's as tender as it is fierce. Motherwort to calm the spiral. Rose to soften without weakening. Hawthorn to protect the boundaries of your heart. This isn't a supplement. It's a devotional practice in plant form.
The intention of Text Yourself Back isn’t to turn you into someone you’re not.
Nor is it going to give you a manipulative formula for “getting the love you want.”
It’s to give you a library of scripts, boundaries, and playful messages that you can reshape into your own voice, so you can practice being the version of you who is self-chosen, grounded, and irresistible because you’re rooted in truth.
But your text is just the first step in having your own back.
That’s why this guide pairs digital scripts with plant technology. Inside this guide, you are getting our favorite herbal allies for the heart, plants that steady your nervous system, soften spirals, strengthen your intuition, and help you stay open without dissolving yourself.
These herbs are about TO BECOME YOUR NEW favorite lovers.
As you learn to be both the tender, romantic lover you are and the confident, self-respecting lover you’ve always needed, these herbal allies support you physically and spiritually.
If you're ready to reclaim your tenderness without losing yourself,
If you're ready to let longing lead you home instead of away,
Begin your return.
Inside this guide you will:
38 text scripts for the moments you usually lose yourself - plus permission to rewrite them in your own voice
6 Herbal profiles along with Sanctum's heart-healing allies: Motherwort, Rose, Hawthorn, and more
The “Text Yourself Back” practice, because self-devotion starts with how you speak to you
And a reminder of what devotion really is
It's time to take your power back and the plants and I are here to help.
Look, I've been the Lover who couldn't stop checking her phone.
The one who turned "good morning" texts into evidence of forever and radio silence into proof I wasn't enough.
I've spiral-texted at 3am, over-explained myself into oblivion, and Googled "how to stop being so needy" more times than I'll admit.
But here's what changed everything: I learned to romance myself first.
Not in some toxic "you have to love yourself before anyone else can" way, but in the deeply practical, nervous-system-rewiring, herb-sipping, boundary-setting way that actually works.
Your devotion was never the problem. Where you placed it was.
Let's bring it home.
Once you download the guide, I'll be in your inbox like a friend who gets it. I’ll be sharing the messy stories, the rituals that saved me, and the herbal allies that helped me go from hopelessly devoted to Holy shit, I'm devoted to me now.
We're going to practice self-return together. One text, one boundary, one drop of Sanctum at a time.
Ready to Go Deeper into Your Return?
The scripts and herbs in your free guide are just the beginning. If you're feeling the call to fully embody self-devotion—not just intellectually, but in your body, your bloodstream, your daily rituals—I created something for you.
The Lover's Bundle is your immersion kit for the long game of coming home to yourself.
Inside:
Sacred Sanctum Tincture – Your daily heart-healing ally (the full bottle, not just a sample)
Touch Yourself First Body Oil – Sensual, skin-nourishing, made for the self-massage ritual that teaches your nervous system: I am safe to receive my own touch
Guided Self-Massage Audio Ritual – My voice walking you through 20 minutes of embodied self-devotion (do this weekly and watch everything shift)
Vital-E Powder – Hormone-supporting minerals and vitamins so your body has what it needs to regulate, restore, and feel alive in your skin again
This isn't a product bundle. It's a 28-day devotional practice for Lovers who are ready to stop outsourcing their worth and start building an unshakeable relationship with themselves.
Offer only available to Lovers for a limited time
Want the Unfiltered Version?
If you loved this page and want more of the messy, real, behind-the-scenes work I'm doing in my own Lover journey—the rituals that flopped, the boundaries I'm still learning to hold, the 2am breakthroughs and the herbs I'm currently obsessed with, join the Museletter.
It's where I share the stories too raw for Instagram, the practices I'm testing in real-time, and the plant wisdom that's changing my life as I'm living it.
Free, weekly, and written like a letter from a friend who gets it.
Not Sure Lover Is Your Primary Archetype?
You might be a blend or maybe another archetype is calling louder right now.
Explore the others:
The Oracle – The one who explores the edges and see’s what others miss
The Rebel – The ride-or-die who always shows the f*ck up
The Icon – The one who holds the vision and commands the room
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